Hey everyone, I'm new here. I'm 19 years old, from New Jersey. I'm a monogamous bisexual. I'm a virgin by choice (on both sides of the playing field). :) I'm not in a hurry to have sexual relations right now, but I'm also not one of those girls who is waiting for marriage. I think it's silly to marry someone when you don't even know what kind of sexual partner they'd make. You should know your partner well before you tie the knot.
I have a feeling I'll sooner lose my virginity to a woman than a man. And I am not talking about penetration. Virginity doesn't just imply abstinence from vaginal intercourse; sex is much more than penetration! To be honest, I'm not too fond of penetration. I enjoy other forms of stimulation. I think someone loses their virginity the second they do something sexual with someone else, be it oral, anal, manual, or vaginal sex. Basically, anything that involves two consentual people and their genitalia is sex.
I may be a virgin, but I do masturbate. I have one crazy sex drive. I've always done it, I see no shame in it. After all, it's healthy, and it's the safest form of "sex". Although, I don't really call like to it sex, because to me, "sex" means doing it with another person, not just by yourself. Believe it or not, even though I'm often horny, I don't crave being sexual with another person. Other people complicate things. So until I'm in a good relationship with someone, I don't see a need to be sexually involved with anyone. :)
And unlike most people, I'm not frustrated in any way. I rather enjoy being a virgin.
Well, that's all I'm going to write. If you have any questions, ask away. :)