Virgins United!

For support and discussion of all things virginity related!


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most of this was x-posted to virginized
plurhugs wrote in virgins_united
Hey everyone, I'm new here. I'm 19 years old, from New Jersey. I'm a monogamous bisexual. I'm a virgin by choice (on both sides of the playing field). :) I'm not in a hurry to have sexual relations right now, but I'm also not one of those girls who is waiting for marriage. I think it's silly to marry someone when you don't even know what kind of sexual partner they'd make. You should know your partner well before you tie the knot.

I have a feeling I'll sooner lose my virginity to a woman than a man. And I am not talking about penetration. Virginity doesn't just imply abstinence from vaginal intercourse; sex is much more than penetration! To be honest, I'm not too fond of penetration. I enjoy other forms of stimulation. I think someone loses their virginity the second they do something sexual with someone else, be it oral, anal, manual, or vaginal sex. Basically, anything that involves two consentual people and their genitalia is sex.

I may be a virgin, but I do masturbate. I have one crazy sex drive. I've always done it, I see no shame in it. After all, it's healthy, and it's the safest form of "sex". Although, I don't really call like to it sex, because to me, "sex" means doing it with another person, not just by yourself. Believe it or not, even though I'm often horny, I don't crave being sexual with another person. Other people complicate things. So until I'm in a good relationship with someone, I don't see a need to be sexually involved with anyone. :)

And unlike most people, I'm not frustrated in any way. I rather enjoy being a virgin.

Well, that's all I'm going to write. If you have any questions, ask away. :)

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You're a bit like my female replica. I'm monogamous and bisexual (and that confuses so many people, those ignoramuses!) and very satisfied with virginity.

Hey, I'm a monogamous bisexual too. ;)

I don't understand why that confuses people, either. Being bi doesn't mean you're some kind of raging self-control-lacking slut; it just means you're attracted to a wider variety of people!

In sophomore year, my social studies teacher said bisexual people just like sex. I was too shy to tell her off back then (I had social anxiety disorder) but, grr, people are so stupid. Teachers especially shouldn't say things like that.

I think it's silly to marry someone when you don't even know what kind of sexual partner they'd make. You should know your partner well before you tie the knot.

I totally agree with that statement. I would not want to get married and then find out, "wow dude, you suck in bed."

I don't believe it is about sucking in bed. I believe people can learn, and get better at their sexual ability, like anything else that needs practice. However, what is important, is chemistery, and trust. That will remain steady, and constant.

you forgot the most important of all COMMUNICATION!!!!

Welcome to the community! You have a clue! Please don't leave!

rofl...lmao...hahahhahaha...I was thinking the same exact thing...took the words and what not...welcome to the community! :)

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